Rape Culture

[Darkhorse]

[nordictruce]

lol @ the long con

[Philly]

[nordictruce]

This thread makes me think about this one particular girl not even talking about the sexual assault girl. This is probably how most "rapes" happen.

I had been on this chick for a good year. She finally is single, we agree to go out and she has one too many jagerbombs and she's all over me. WE're really good friends but she knows I want to date her. She's DRUNK and I say you know I need to get her home. Without getting too graphic, she did some things that made it pretty clear to me what was on her mind.


I thought better of it, she was really drunk and If something happened, I wanted her to remember it lol. So I put her to sleep in my bed, as she ws too drunk to drive. she wakes up in the morning and obviously embarrassed from getting that drunk and being that sexually provocative the previous night, rushes out the door and goes to the car without saying 2 words. It took her about another 6 months to even call me back / talk to me again she was so embarrassed. Nothing happened. I wanted it to lol, but it didn't.


As much crap as I'm talking in this thread I have a very simple rule. I don't have sex with women who are drinking, unless sh'es my GF, under no circumstances whatsoever. The above situation I can easily see how she got 2nd thoughts and convinced herself I Took advantage of her. and she would have been somewhat right. I had 1 drink she had like 8. I knew what i was doing she didn't. But that's kinda gray. NO one told her to have 8 drinks, how are you going to punish me for acting on her actions while she's drunk. But that's exactly what would have happened had I did it.

what's making me so mad is that women like lil bit are saying it's my fault of i would have had sex with her that night and this is rape. Women can flirt, #$## teese, feel you up, do whatever but aren't responsible for their actions if they're drunk.

[Spider]

[phosphide]

[broken robot]

so basically my strategy on okcupid is to send twenty messages a day. so far i've sent fifteen and gotten one reply, and i swear to god i am actually reading their profiles.

this dating website thing is completely lopsided. is it that there's a mass of dolts out there just sending hundreds of "ur hot" messages to women that are crowding their inbox like spam? or is it true they have the pick of the litter? this almost makes me want to do a study.

[Spider]

You should google around. Its mountains of data about millions of people's dating habits for years. Fascinating reading. They actually found a way to put a dollar figure on what an inch of a man's height is worth, in terms of the amount of extra income he'd have to generate to have the same appeal to women as someone slightly taller.

But yes...women get bombarded daily with messages from guys...especially the best looking women. They can get hundreds of messages per day. Men on the other hand will get jack shit lol. Even the best looking men get like 50 times fewer messages than the average woman.

Basically, you are shouting into a hurricane. Good luck with that.

[broken robot]

[Kane]

....weird. I got several dates on Cupid. It just took a little while to foster the relationship/make her comfortable enough to meet with me. I was always told the one thing that made me stand out was my vocabulary and my grammar. The internet is absolutely inundated with dipshits.

I will say the constant messaging game back and forth for weeks on end online before meeting, just don't even bother. If she needs a f**k month of emails and messages before a meetup, she's not worth the trouble. Just dump that shit. Give her a couple days to a week/max. The investment is hindered because after the first meet up you might drop her or she might drop you. The opportunity cost of sending multiple messages over several days/weeks is HUGE. It rarely pays off.

Online dating is weird.