a few years ago we had a constitutional amendment come up here in minnesota for popular vote to say that marriage is between a man and a woman. i voted on that, and i voted against it. don't believe me if you will but that is the truth of it.
i favor organic change over decrees from our supposed betters. same sex marriage has majority support in this country, i think. why not jsut let it play out? it would have taken a few years. lets the states make up their definitions, just force them to recognize what other states recognize.