no one said it would be easy. and it shouldn't be easy. but children have been removed from their parents care for psychological abuse before.
that new jersey couple with the children named adolf hitler and eva braun has had their children taken. of course they specify different reasons but no one thought the children were abused or neglected until it became a national story about their names. then suddenly there were all kinds of charges made.
it's kind of like assisted suicide in hospitals. it's technically illegal. technically. but it happens quite a bit, just obviously it isn't publicized.