EDIT: I've redacted the OP and removed some of the more colloquial language, just to make it more readable.
So having been around here for a bit and seen the kinds of arguments people often get into, I thought it would be good to start a thread with my weekly/whenever I feel like exploration of themes in social science. These are general rules also for debating politics and society. Without them it's too easy to get stuck in the same argumentative loop of "is human nature good? bad?" so consider this my contribution to the health and betterment of this forum's discourse.
Okay so to begin, let's first ask, what is social science? I'll answer the question later on in the essay, but first we need some historical and theoretical background. Marx, Max Weber, Emile Durkheim are considered the founders of social science. Basically in the 19th century Europe was undergoing major transformations, including the industrial revolution, new technologies such as the steam engine, demographic shifts including migration from rural to urban areas especially in England, and social and political upheaval such as the revolutions of 1848. Before this period people had thought about things from a philosophical/moral perspective. What does it mean to own property? What is the nature of political sovereignty, is it the right of a king? Think John Locke and others in England in the 17th century. On the German side, especially by the late 18th century Hegel was asking what is the motive force behind history? Is it the realm of thought and the self-conscious development of philosophical ideas? So again these were all philosophical questions, they weren't really asking on a basic level, how does society work, what is the significance of the existing social distribution of property, how is political power exercised in everyday matters (not how it's justified on a philosophical basis).
So Marx first comes along and he at first tries to use Hegel's philosophy to develop a different understanding. As he puts it, man, labor, and nature are in a relationship with each other but the existing capitalist system divorces people from the products of their labor and creates money as an alienated medium and measure of all things in society. So after he engages in philosophical debates in the 1844 manuscripts (what some authors refer to as "young Marx"), he’s ready to pursue politics. So he meets up with Engels and they write the communist manifesto in 1848. Again though, even though they're starting to look at historical developments, the emergence of the "bourgeoisie," and so on, Marx is still really interested in a kind of philosophical teleology that will lead to the liberation of man, etc. So eventually though Marx settles down and he tries to figure out how to actually study what he views as the exploitative relationships of capitalism. He starts going to the archives and reading up on industrial development in England at the time, Factory Acts, new laws, and so on. He starts reading English political economists, and he starts exploring the material basis of relations in society. Ultimately he comes up with a theory of class relations, how the economy works through labor's exploitation, and so on. Though he has a kind of philosophical method of presentation, he's really by this point changed the subject from abstruse debates among German philosophers and started to examine material relationships that define society, in this case class.
Now we get to another German fellow, Max Weber. Weber's reading Marx but he’s critical of Marx’s idea that everything is a product of the economy, that society is merely a reflection of relationships in the economic sphere. So Weber starts thinking about changes in Europe and he gets to thinking that religion might have played a role in the development of industriousness suitable to the rise of capitalism. He names this "The Protestant Ethic." Basically the protestant ethic is based on scrounging and saving in the belief that success in this life is a sign that you are in fact predestined to go to heaven (borrowing from Calvinism). So people work and work because they want to get good shit but also because they think it's a sign that they'll be saved. Before you know it though this ethic's really taken off and it's defined the whole nature and reason behind society, so eventually the actual religious belief falls away and all you have left are a set of orderly relationships, including the development of an impersonal bureaucracy. Weber was kind of ambivalent about the whole process, and he actually refers to the dissolution of religious reason behind the organization of modern society as the creation of an "iron cage." Basically we do things for very instrumental reasons and there's no longer any belief in a higher good that's animating society. In addition to his general analysis of capitalism’s ascent, he discussed relations of political power. He argued that whereas feudal ("paternalistic") relations relied on very personalistic ties between the king and other power holders--offices granted were for private accumulation--modern bureaucracy is based on impersonal features. You don't rise up in the government based on personality but rather based on your ability pass exams, qualify for certain positions, and so on.
Finally we get to a French man named Emile Durkheim. Durkheim is familiar with socialist thought prevalent during his time, particularly St Simon, Fourier, and others discussing the social effects of industrial revolution, and how society's becoming a bit too chaotic. So Durkheim starts wondering about how society is organized. Here's really where we get into social science in the sense that Durkheim really emphasizes this term. We are not just an aggregate of individuals. Rather society is a "thing" that transcends us. It has its own laws and functions, and these can be studied. Durkheim counterposes society to prevalent explanations that emphasized the role of psychology and individual motivations. He even proposed something like a historical theory that argues before industrial revolution, humans had corporate bonds based on "mechanical solidarity.” This means the whole thing just worked automatically, whereas now with the advent of capitalism and new technological changes we have the dissolution of these bonds. Durkheim referred to this stage as "anomie." It's as if people have lost all sense of meaning. So, he argues new relationships in society will have to be organized along "organic solidarity" and increasing specialization in the division of labor of society. At the same time the rise of industry has actually opened up more occupations for people, so Durkheim proposed the creation of unions and industrial organizations to coordinate all facets of production, again, a French version of “socialism.”
Okay so briefly reviewing the above, the three major thinkers, Marx, Weber, and Durkheim, were dealing with big changes happening in Europe in the 19th century. They realized philosophical discourse was inadequate to exploring these developments, still less relying on psychology or theories of human nature. They realized society had to be studied as a phenomenon with its own laws. They each differed though in how society is organized. For Marx obviously political economy and relations between labor and capital are crucial whereas for Weber for example its about cultural values, the effects of modern bureaucracy, etc. Each man grappled with understandings of power, agency, and collective social betterment. They did in their own ways want to see society improve, though Weber was kind of more neutral and studied in his approach (he never really came to a political position of his own). So this really gets us to the basis of modern social science, including relations between social theory and political practice. We're way past philosophy now and questions about "what is property?" (Locke). We're past the "self-conscious development of spirit" (Hegel). We are in social theory land. To be continued…