"That said, it would be unfair to the mother if we made her carry a kid to term she didn't want."
"It's unfair as well that a woman can choose to abort and the man essentially has no say."
You didn't say those things?
Let me guess, when you said it was unfair to force a woman to carry a child, you didn't mean that it was fair to give her the choice. And when you said it was unfair for the dad to not have a say, you didn't mean it was fair for him to have a say.... amirite?
That is some Grade A logic right there. Just stop