It isn't their child when it isn't born, Mr. Pro-Choice. It is a fetus. And you accuse us of adopting anti-abortion tenants?
It is perfectly consistent to say that the fetus belongs entirely to the woman, because it does. It is also logically consistent to note that the child belongs to both, and should be cared for and provided for equally.
What is not logically consistent is saying that it is unfair for a man to have a say in the abortion decision but also unfair for him not to.