The pill isn't suitable for everyone and its reliability can be affected by gastric upsets. That's quite apart from the horrible side effects, such as bloating, weight gain and mood swings.
Condoms are very reliable and safe , especially when used with properly with spermicidal jelly - so gentlemen, if you insist on using both when having sex, then you greatly reduce your chances of becoming a father.
Until the day scientists have developed an oral contraceptive that stop men producing sperm temporarily, condoms are the only choice you have at the moment, if you hope to become a parent some time in the future.
That simple fact is nothing to do with inequality laws but with nature - and there is no way of legally overcoming it.