Rape Culture

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[eynon81]

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(somewhat personal.. actually very personal)


when I was 21 I was seeing this 24 year old woman. We went to a club on a saturday night. She proceeds to get shitface drunk, to the point where I had to pull over the car to let her throw up. twice. We had already had sex before so I wasn't trying to press anything.

I had some friends stay at my house who went out with me, and that was my saving grace. We got home and she was shivvering, so I just put the covers over her and put her to sleep and I went to bed on the couch.

So she wakes up the next day and tells everyone she knows that she is pretty sure I sexually assaulted her when she was sleep. Everyone was like "um no, he went to sleep here on the couch". \

To make matters worse, when she was drunk she ASKED me to have sex with her. I just could not bring myself to do it. What was the point? I mean the girl was shivering she was so drunk. I'm not going to to get any enjoyment out of that. Had I done it, I would probably be a sexual offender today. Today i'm a LOT choosier about who I "have fun" with.


This is the gray line in the whole thing. I will also always becuase of the above have doubts when a woman cries drunk rape. Lots of women just want attention. Not all of them. But too many.

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I'm still not seeing how these incidents coalesce into a "rape culture."

[eynon81]