http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/2193904/The above link has some statistics that are of particular interest to this discussion.
First, the risk that a woman will die a violent death increases by 270% when a gun is in the home. Second, 30% of all female murder victims are killed by their intimate partners. Just 5% of men are killed by their intimate partners. So this is a problem mostly impacting women.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/18523113/This link demonstrates some facts about murder following the issuing of a restraining order:
"RESULTS: About 11% of 231 women killed by male intimates had been issued a restraining order. About one-fifth of the female IPH victims who had a restraining order were killed within 2 days of the order being issued; about one-third were killed within a month..."
So, we can conclude that most victims of IPH did not have a restraining order in place, but that a third of the victims who did were killed within a month of it's issue. A fifth within a few days.
It seems to me that having a cooling down period of one month, after which the gun could be retrieved by the owner, makes a fair bit of sense. Especially since restraining orders should probably be issued more often.
http://www.soundvision.com/Info/domesti ... istics.aspThis link demonstrates that nearly one half of restraining orders are violated. So removing guns from those issued a restraining order may also remove a significant degree of threat women face.
It seems to be a minimal amount of damage to a person's rights in order to prevent dozens of murders every year. There are three incidents of IPH faced by women every day in the US; 11% of approximately 1000 per year is about 100. 33 of them will be killed within a month. So the question becomes what is more onerous to rights: the loss of a gun for a month, or the deaths of 33 abused women per year.
Why not compromise? Put a tracker on these guns that send a message to police if they leave the home within a months time. The owner maintains possession within his home, and the women are protected.