damn....where the hell are we going?
look I was pointing out that our own cultural and legal system largely grew out of cultures and legal-systems that didn't play the whole "if I rape her I have to pay her father/older-brother" game. Western Europe was considerably more "eye for an eye" than that. The Romans overthrew a King over rape. The Britons revolted against the Romans over rape. The Peasant's Revolt in England was caused in large part due to rape. Fear of rape in particular helped create strong central monarchies and legal systems.