Exactly.... you want a homemaker as a man? Marry a country girl if you got the balls to tie one down. Even then you don't have the right to get irritated when she discovers 5 years down the road that she's got a thing for organizational management and community interaction. You get to roll with it, and you get to find out how you both can meet half way in your ideals... or you, as a guy, get to be tattooed as an asshat, because if you don't take personal responsibility for your own half of the relationship, just because the human being you decided to shack up with evolved in their interests, you get to be a bag of dicks.
Simple as that.