A single standard is not in itself racist. The single standard available in the US, and which is the one which you seem to wish to adhere to, is extremely racist and always has been.
On the other hand, since when did people in a free country have to adhere to a single standard anyway? I might want to adhere to the Australian Aborigine lifestyle, am I not free to choose that if I wish? I thought the US was a free country? What's with the demands for conformism?